"Working with you has been a gift- you’re amazing and we’re both so thankful."  


- L.S. and E.W.

Your relationships are deeply important to you. You know that if your relationships are in trouble, the other parts of your life will suffer too. So you don’t want to waste any more time. 

My goal is to get quickly to the root of your challenges and help you figure out the steps you can take right now to move you and your relationships to where you want them to be. My approach is practical, proactive (rather than reactive), action-oriented, and “no bullshit”. I help you identify and break out of harmful relationship patterns and rewrite broken scripts. I help you see and use your strengths and inner wisdom to make things better. I empower you to embrace yourself, and reconnect deeply with your people, so that love becomes an easy, integrated part of your everyday life. 

"My experience working with Libby was life changing. I was on the precipice of change, but Libby helped me truly listen to myself and provided guidance to manage my emotions as I took steps towards change."

- J.D.

  • Support a plurality of relationship dynamics including open, swinging, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, poly/mono, relationship anarchy, intentional monogamy and everything in between

  • Affirm the full spectrum of experiences and identities around sexuality and gender including folks who are queer, asexual, genderfluid, transgender and agender.

  • Hold that my clients are whole, worthy and enough just as they are

  • Presume my clients are highly competent and experts in what’s best for them

  • Are trauma-informed and body-positive and is informed by disability justice work

  • Support creating and maintaining stable, long-term alternative family structures

  • Work to challenge the dominant cultural narratives that undermine healthy relationships and communities

My Offerings

How to Work with Me

Foundations of Open Relating
for Wild and Tender Hearts

Foundations of Open Relating for Wild and Tender Hearts is a 16-week online group coaching offering that is the only program of its kind. FORWTH is designed to provide participants with a framework and tools to support their unique relational journey. Includes a combination of instruction, group coaching, role-play, small group exercises and individual homework, while in community with other wild and tender hearts. [Update 8/28/24 - September Cohort is sold out]

Private Ongoing Coaching

For folks who need customized support, I offer private ongoing guidance. I tend to work with private clients for between 4 months to a year, often weekly or biweekly. With individuals I do 60-minute sessions, with couples I do 90-minute sessions, and with larger ecosystems, we custom create a package together.

Drop-In Support

I often have a waitlist for ongoing guidance work with me, but on a weekly basis, I often have a few openings in my schedule for drop-in consultation sessions. If you need immediate short-term support, just want to pick my brain, or need some ideas on where to turn to address a larger issue, book a session with me. (Note: these sessions are more a combination of coaching, consulting and guidance. They not a substitute for an ongoing coaching relationship.)