Create your Relationship Vision

Curious about how you could be doing relationships differently, but have no idea how to get from here to there?

You may need a vision.

The path of love for you is the road less traveled.

You strive for something different than the status quo.

Maybe you don’t do monogamy.

Maybe you are just disillusioned with what your upbringing, society, and romantic comedies told you about relationships.

You definitely don’t want a relationship where you have to be someone you’re not. 

This is why having a vision is so important

Maybe you’ve tried doing relationships by following what everyone else does - and that just hasn’t worked out.

Maybe you’ve tried doing what your partners wanted.

Maybe you pride yourself on being easygoing or going with the flow. But you keep ending up in situations that don’t work for you.

Or maybe you have had partners want to create a shared vision with you for the future.

But when faced with the question, “What do you want?” you are like a deer in headlights.

Here’s what I know

The direction of our relationships is directed by the sum of our choices.

If you navigate your relational life by making decisions only to move you away from what you don’t want, you can end up crashing right into exactly what you were hoping to avoid.

Think about it: Would you get in a car or on a boat charting a course away from what you don’t want without a destination set for where you do want to go?

Also, even if you are clear on what you don’t want, it can be hard to stand firm in your no if you don’t know at all what you’re saying yes to. Without a vision, you may be more likely to succumb to pressure from others or react to the discomfort or desire in the moment. 

Having a vision acts as a compass to help with discernment. At every turn, you can ask yourself - is this going to take me closer to my vision? 

That said…

Having a clear vision is not always easy. It’s especially hard when you take the road less traveled. When you go looking for a picture of what relationships could look like for you, it’s hard to find.

Resources on nonmonogamy and polyamory can help, but what if you don’t see yourself in those resources? How do you paint a picture for yourself of what you want without a reference? How can you even know what’s possible?

This workshop can help

A lot of people who do visioning work want you to “manifest” or create a vision board or whatever. My offer is a little different. I want to give you the tools to really understand not just WHAT you want, but WHY you want it, HOW to know if you’re moving towards it or away. I also hope to help you learn more about WHO you are and WHERE to go for what you want.

In this 4-hour, experiential workshop I’ll help you…

  • Create an image of who you are and want to be in relationship - how do YOU want to show up?

  • Get clear on your values, what’s important to you in relationship - and what’s your big “Why”?

  • Practice holding the complexity of the many parts of you - and what to do when those parts want different and conflicting things.

  • Create a map of how YOU work. What creates delight and what creates despair for you?

  • Come up with action steps you can take right after the workshop to move you towards creating what you truly want.

The 4-hour Create Your Relationship Vision workshop will be offered via Zoom in 2 parts over two nights

January 3 and 4 from 8:00PM - 10:00PM EST

Accessibility sliding scale pricing is available for anyone who needs it.. Please send Libby an email for access.

What’s Included

Live, 4-hour workshop over 2 nights

BONUS: free access to my Break Up Better and Unstuck & Understood recorded workshops (a $47 value)

20+ page workbook with exercises and worksheets

Lifetime access to the recording

My hope in creating this workshop is that you will have more tools to:

  • Trust yourself more. 

  • Honor your limits and hold your boundaries. 

  • Stick up for your needs and go after your desires. 

  • Confidently make decisions knowing where you are going. 

  • Feel more confident in your partnerships. 

  • Feel more secure knowing where you are headed.

I hope to see you there!

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can I access the recording?

    This workshop will be recorded, but replays will only be available to those who signed up to participate live.

  • Will there be captions?

    I will be providing captioning through Zoom, but please let me know if you have any additional access needs.

  • Is this for someone who is unpartnered or for someone already in a relationship?

    Both! If you are unpartnered, this workshop can help you with partner selection, where to find your people, and knowing what you need to communicate with a new squeeze. If you are partnered, this workshop can support you in the ongoing growth and development of your relationship(s), helping you feel confident about your limits, agreements, boundaries and choices together.

  • I am monogamous: is this workshop for me?

    This workshop is inclusive of all relationship styles.

  • Is this workshop live or prerecorded?

    This workshop will only be provided live

  • How do I access the workshop?

    The workshop will be available on Zoom. The workbook and online community space will be accessed through the Making Polyamory Work Mighty Networks portal.

  • Are there refunds?

    Once the workshop has begun, there are no refunds. However if you register and then are unable to attend, a refund will be issued minus a $7 processing fee.

About Your Presenter

Libby Sinback

RELATIONSHIP COACH AND PODCAST HOST

Libby Sinback is a relationship coach, educator, and host of the podcast, Making Polyamory Work. She is certified in Relational Life Therapy, and trained in Interpersonal Neurobiology, Developmental and Relational Trauma, and the Gottman Method. Libby helps people who want to break out of harmful relationship patterns to embrace nourishing, authentic, boundless love in their life. Libby believes love is why we are here and how we heal.